Monday, September 2, 2019

First post by Leif

When my Dad was doing a race the thing that  was securing a pulley ripped off the deck of the boat.  The people who repaired the boat after the hurricane had not put long enough bolts for it to be secure in high winds.  You have to get into the aft locker to get to the bottom of the bolts to see how long of bolts are needed an to try and put nuts on the bottom.  None of the workers or my Dad could fit into the locker.  It was hard for me to get in.  My sister could fit in,  but she couldn’t reach the bolts.  We took out the rope hanger to make more room and I could fit in.  I still did not want to go back in but then my mom and Dad said I could get the biggest ice cream in the store which turned out to be a brownie sundae.

Where plate ripped off deck

Deck fitting


It wasn’t easy to see.  I got a flashlight so I could see.  It wasn’t scary. The first bolt I could reach it but I could not get a nut on it because it was right up against the wall.   I could not reach the second bolt.  We tried using pliers but I could not angle the nut correctly to get it to grab onto the bolt the workman was turning from outside.  There was no room to get on a washer.
Leif’s view from inside locker


I was able to help because I was able to see the amount of bolt that was sticking out from the fiberglass.  This allowed us to figure out that the original bolts were too short.  The adults were able to determine that longer bolts would have more grip and they would not rip out.  
Leif reaching for tools






An old boat and rookie mistakes

I have been messing around with boats since I was a kid and with this one for the past three.  Granted living aboard presents new challenges but I thought by now I might have fixed the things that were ready to break or exhausted the list of rookie mistakes.  That doesn’t seem to be the case.  We’ve had a week full of them.  At tough moments I have asked myself if I am just bad at this, but I get over that thought and honestly don’t think so.  Instead I believe that inherent to, and even the appeal of, adventure activities is that you cannot learn everything before you go.

The week started out with a toilet clog.  Now they warn you about this when you first start chartering which most people do before they buy a big boat.  They tell you not to put too much down and how you will need to find someone with a really skinny arm to reach way in there and how much they will charge you if they have to come out.  So we have tried to do the right things by buying quickly disintegrating “boat” toilet paper and teaching the kids how to flush.  In the Caribbean I even put vinegar down it like thy told me to do, although I didn’t really know why.  

When the toilet pump handle wouldn’t move, we first tried waiting for morning while we filled the tubing with vinegar, hot water and some of the boat-safe holding tank treatment.  I keep a piece of coated wire that had been one of the lifelines before the hurricane which often comes in handy and, once resigned to more aggressive intervention I disconnected the flexible plastic tubing which comprises our pipes and tried to ram it through.  When it didn’t pass I frayed one end and turned it while pushing it into the tubing by coiling the end that was still in my hand.  It was a makeshift plumbing snake.  I could measure how far I twisted it through the clog and that clog was over two feet long.  Poopy fluid was oozing into my hands along with calcified pieces of build-up shaped like the inside of the tube suggesting this was the culmination of a gradual process.  

I was determined and was five hours into it before I gave up.  I rationalized giving up on the basis that this tube was going to have to be replaced anyway and we were due in the boat yard the next day to get our new stove.  I had been hoping to avoid the expense of having them do it, but I called and asked them to expect the extra job.  I was probably lucky it happened now, near a yard that knows me and who were able to do it immediately.  It took two of their guys over a day, but they installed all new hoses.  Kate was more than a little grossed out by the project and it was good to be at a dock to clean up.  All fluids in our boat flow down into our 4’ deep bilge, so you can imagine what was down there. I brought their hose right into the boat to flush the bilge by filling it and draining it with my bilge pump.  I was still seeing brown floaties, on my third cycle of this so I repeated it several more times with bleach and assorted boat cleaners.         




    

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              

But the toilet clog wasn’t the only thing that had happened that day.  As we were deciding that I would launch into the project we thought it best for Kate and kids go to the beach.  It was a beautiful day and we were at a popular anchorage with only one other boat.  That’s when we realized our rowing dinghy was missing.  Now if you have been reading you will remember that this already happened to us once this trip so its a rookie mistake we have made twice.  Kate was desperate to go to shore to dig a hole and do her business (because remember the toilet is clogged) so after dropping her off with the inflatable the kids and I started searching.  I felt sick to my stomach for having lost it. I stopped by the other boat to ask what direction the wind had been blowing and he suggested we call the Stonington Harbormaster.  To my incredible relief the harbor master immediately responded that Mulligan, a lobster boat, had found our “skiff” as they call them here and had it aboard.  He wasn’t going to be back til early afternoon but I had a toilet to unclog anyway.  When he came by my oars were even strapped down inside it. Mulligan’s captain told me he had found it two miles away drifting. He noticed the end of the painter seemed chafed and we noticed that indeed the painter was shorter, but we did not however see the rest of it still tied to the boat

After we had a couple of days at the yard we figured we were good to go Downeast.  They call the coast northeast of Bar Harbor “Downeast” because it is more east than north and the prevailing winds make it downwind    The book says not to expect much in the way of services for pleasure boats and that we’re on our own, but having found and addressed the plumbing situation we’re thinking our odds are pretty good.  Well…we were about halfway to our destination, having a good sail, spinnaker up, wind beginning to pick up, moving along at 6 kts when I notice that the boom is no longer attached to the mast.  I had not done anything different except sheet in the main as the wind shifted to be more foreword. There had been no loud sound of metal ripping. The hinge at this joint simply failed.  The boom was just hanging there from the sail.  I sent the kids downstairs and took down the spinnaker with Kate as that huge sail can make unpredictable things happen.  We then brought Leif back up to slowly ease the main halyard, dropping the sail slowly so Kate and I could flake it. We took care to control the boom which would be allowed to move unpredictably once the sail dropped.  The boom ended up resting on the canvas dodger in the back and being held up precariously by the rigid boom vang in the front.  My first thought was to disconnect the vang but as I was wrestling with that I realized doing so would allow the boom to move more, potentially creating a battering ram.  Leif suggested we hook up the topping the lift and I think his idea was better.  The topping lift is a line from the top of the mast to the back of the boom.  With it lifting the end of the boom up and a second rope from the boom to a cleat on deck, things were stable. We motored to Eastern Harbor where we picked up a mooring that said “Guest” and for which no one came out to charge us.  

Before dark we tucked away the undammaged sail (whew!) and laid the boom on the deck. In the morning we took advantage of the flood tide going our direction to continue on.  We were now a slow motor boat.  I do not like depending on the engine and am always thinking how I can sail out of a situation if the motor dies, so now I have all sorts of new worries, but I am excited about being Downeast and we have picked out a place to go for Leif’s birthday.  I vowed to be attentive so as to avoid further mistakes. I did figure out that there was a 39’ bridge in our path and did not run into it with our 53’ mast, though that required a 3 hour detour.  And while we wanted to make ourselves feel more comfortable by topping off our fuel tanks, we read that the fuel dock in Jonesport only has a depth of 3’ at low and we had dutifully bought the book which told us it was now low.  So we did a few things right.  But I set the autopilot to cross Chandler Bay and I snagged my first lobster pot.

The water here is peppered with colorful foam buoys attached by a long rope to lobster traps, or pots, on the ocean floor.  My kids are avid collectors of these buoys after they are detached in a storm and wash ashore.  They hang from our tree fort in Minneapolis.  Warnings abound about getting them wrapped around the boat’s propeller.  Our first summer up here we were vigilant about looking out for them, but now that I have felt hundreds of them bang their way along my hull as I motored along I have become complacent.  

Of course my first snag has to occur while my primary source of propulsion is compromised.  
The engine suddenly developed a rumbling tenor, though it did not stop dead like it did when I snagged the line my dinghy in the prop on one of my first charter trips.  Kate confirmed that we did have a buoy following us and then could see, by leaning way over the rail, a line heading to the propeller.  My attempts to go in reverse (unwind it?) did not make things better and pulling at it with a boat hook just caused the extendable pole to separate.  

I resigned myself that no one else was going to solve this situation for me.  As I reluctantly began to don the wet suit I carry for just such an occasion it my acceptance of what I had to do developed some momentum.  I lowered my self into the water gradually.  The lobsterman’s 5/16” 3-strand nylon rope created a rat’s nest around my propeller shaft and the propeller itself.  It initially uncoiled easily, but then I had to cut.  The wet suit was making me float up against the boat and the lightweight sailing knife that I carry in my pocket wasn’t going through it.  The next dive I went down with an old rusty knife that came with the boat, one which I had just the day before offered to a guy at the yard but which he did not accept because he told me it was too good of a knife, and it plowed right through.  I must have dived 20 times and my head was getting cold, like an ice cream headache from the outside.  It might be good to have some type of wet suit hood.  In between dives it helped to hang from a rope off the boat.  I never looked down. 

Back on deck I felt off balance. I later learned from a NOAA radio report that water temp in Jonesport was 58 F that day.  It took a hot shower (yes, we have those on this boat), all my warmest clothes and a bowl of soup before I was feeling warm again.


We are going to stay up here for a week or so despite our challenges.  There is a sense of remoteness that reminds us of northern Minnesota.  There are fewer boats and many more uninhabited islands.  Some of the little flat islands have just one shack built in the center.  A few of the smallest are host to crowds of seals.  We do not want to rush out of here due to a few difficulties.  So far we are getting through them.  I can think of plenty of bad scenarios. Running out of diesel would be bad and there are a few other possibilities I will also try to avoid. Hopefully nothing else will break.

Ruby’s interview

[Parent note: For Ruby’s first post we did an interview.  Walter and Kate came up with the questions, but the answers are all Ruby’s.]

We have been on board for a month and a half.  We have had some good times and hard times. Tell me about three places we have visited that you liked and why you liked it.  Your choice might be because the place was cool, what we did there, who you met, or any other reason.

The place where we met my friend, oh yeah at Somes Sound.  Jewell Island is my second favorite because it is where I had my birthday and because it had towers.  I like this island (we are at Great Beach on Roque Island) because it has a long beach with soft sand.  

What is the hardest thing about living on a boat? 
Watching Leif barf.  
I do not like sleeping next to the cat man.
It is usually messy around here.  When we put the art stuff from my shelf and put them under the seat it helped a ton because that gave me space on my shelf.  

Is that getting any easier?
No
Some days are good but when we bring groceries home it takes two weeks to put them away.  Things were really organized then we got groceries and toilet problems and things got messy again

Tell me about some things you have learned. Can be skills or facts?

There are these little things on rocks that I thought were decorations but they actually are alive and they reach out and catch food.  And they bring it back. They are called barnacles.  I learned how to drive the dinghy with the outboard motor.  I learned how to row.  I learned to paddle the paddle board with my friend.  

What do you like about Maine?
The thing about Maine is the cold water.  I like the cold water and finding lobster buoys.  It has a ton of good islands.  

Tell me about your room on the boat.
It is in the front of the boat.  I call it my room but I do have to share it.  It is shaped like a V.  I have one shelf and my brother has the other.  We have two drawers, one on my side and one on his side and we have a centerpiece (an insert into the top of the V) that can be taken out and go back in.  We have a closet.  We have 4 windows and we have a seat.  The favorite part of my room is the seat.  On my shelf I store toys.  I brought nothing that fragile because it would break.  I brought some stuffed animals, my favorite stuffed animals.  

What do you like to play with?
I play with my stuffed animals.  I play with my doll.  I brought Kaya (an American Girl doll).  I play with my keyboard which I got from my birthday.  

What is the best food we eat on the boat?
Spaghetti.  Still. What do you mean by still? Because that is the best food we eat at home.  

What boat job are you best at?

spray the hose when my dad pulls the anchor up. I am good at cleaning up and he is not (pointing at Leif). 













Tell me about fairy houses you have seen or built.
Monhegan was the place I first built them.  You build it somewhere that looks cool and has soft

stuff, natural stuff. You spend an hour or a half hour.  I use crab shells for beds and make stick houses.  I use a rock or a broken tree or a tree that has a hole on the inside.

What do you look forward to?
I am looking forward to going to Ann’s (Kate’s sister in Maryland).  My dog (which has been promised after the boat trip).  



Sailing the dinghy

It is for moments like these that I brought a sailing dinghy.  What an opportunity it is for a child to have his or her own boat.  Sailing is intuitive on a small boat, enabling a young mind to easily learn the skills. One feels the effect of sail changes faster.  There are fewer complicated sail control systems.  Leif is at the stage that he can rig up the boat himself then land it on the beach and secure things.  He understands how to sail upwind so he can go where he chooses.  Ruby is still exploring how things work but  she certainly understands how to steer with a tiller.  And she likes to goof off in the boat.  


The other day Leif was making his way back to the boat and he was pinching which means he was trying to point too high into the wind.  I was trying to coach him how to get back a little faster.  He told me he had “a plan.”  When I pointed out that his plan was not working he told me that there was one person who decided which direction his boat went and that was him.  What wonderful empowerment.










Sunday, August 11, 2019

The daily update

Sorry that we cannot update more often.  It seems the places we like to visit are the remote ones and I cannot even establish a hotspot to make a post.  

Our latest locations:
York, Maine one night on a rented mooring

Portland Yacht Club for two nights on a mooring they gave us on a reciprocity basis given that we are members of Wayzata Yacht Club

Jewell Island for two nights at anchor, five miles from PYC

Seguin Island for two nights on a free mooring where we got to know the volunteer keepers

Monhegan Island for two nights on a rented mooring

Burnt Coat Harbor on Swans Island, at anchor, where we finally caught up with Mac who is here, with his wife Pat.  We attended the last night of the Sweet Chariot Music Festival


Northeast Harbor where we first kept Gryphon for the first summer that we had her.  We arrived here with several bags of trash we had not been able to get rid of, full holding tanks, no water and several loads of dirty laundry.  Two out of three of our propane tanks were empty and we had identified plenty of stuff we just wanted off the boat.  In one place we were pretty much able to take care of all these needs.  They put us on 40’ section of dock floating in the harbor but not connected to land which was quite handy.  I pulled the dinghy up and did some repairs and even had a hardware store nearby for material.  They provide wifi after over a week of incredibly spotty cellular service.  Then we have been invited to a potluck dinner with the Ocean Cruising Club tonight. We will hit the grocery store and West Marine on our way out of town.  We will be heading to some of the little islands off Stonington now that we are freshly supplied and unburdened.  

Monhegan

Monhegan is a bit of an odd place to visit by boat.  It is an island about 12 miles off the coast of Maine.  It is sustained by tourists ferried in from 10-3 each day, eager to see this place billed as an eccentric artists’ colony.  We were coming for much the same reason, and because of the fairy houses on the trails that Kate remembered from a visit 18 years ago with her now 21 year old niece.  The sailboat cruising guide for Maine says to come into the harbor, find an open mooring, tie up to it then go ashore and ask the harbor master if you can keep your boat on it.  That is a bit disconcerting for those left on board lest the owner of that mooring comes home, but it worked out. 

In the two days we were there several people seemed to know which boat I came off.  It was also explained to me that the entire island is private.  While they will rent you a mooring, there is no place to bring your dinghy ashore.  A local just told me to bring it on the beach and hope no one complains.  They have no public toilets.  A take-out pizza joint on the island makes their toilets available from 9-4.  When Kate and Leif tried to get them to make an exception at 4:30, the young girl at the counter said she did not know were the key was kept.  I did find that the Inn was receptive when I asked if Ruby could use their bathroom and later I just brought Leif in.  There is no place to put trash.  I did not know this when I came in one night with a dinghy full with a bag of trash and packaging from Ruby’s birthday present.  I could not find anything that looked accommodating and was not going to use someone’s personal trash given that people already seemed to be watching.  The next morning we tried again, but it turns out getting trash off the island is a local problem and I had to being it back to the boat again.  

I had not initially noticed, but when the kids got out of the dinghy in bare feet they noticed that there is glass all over the beach.  As they tried to avoid it, someone told us that they do it on purpose so the kids can collect them after they are smooth.  Indeed, from our boat in the harbor we saw a young man heave a bottle, in full view of everyone, at the rocks on the shore.


They do have some very nice trails, for which they are known, and there are indeed fairy houses.  These are built along the Cathedral Woods trail and Leif and Ruby added several more.

The Problem with Schedules

You hear it all the time. “The most dangerous thing on a sailboat is a schedule.” For a rendezvous “you can pick a time or a place, but not both.” A new friend’s parting words were “No strict dates! That’s the key!” After just 2 weeks aboard I’m realizing how right they are.

We set a goal of July 15 to move on to the boat. It was a push, especially with my participation in the 1-2 race taking up most of June, to be ready in time. But that was a land-based goal and not subject to the considerations of life on a boat. We transferred this goal-oriented schedule to boat life when set the goal of getting north to Maine straight away. We didn’t think we’d be able to hide Ruby’s birthday present so we shipped it to Maine, thereby creating a hard date of August 2 by which we needed to get to Portland. 

There are plenty of reasons we want to get to Maine. Our first summer with the boat we made three family trips to Maine so we have our favorite places. We have friends and family there. A new friend is up there on his boat. But having a schedule put pressure on us to keep moving and maybe we did so before we were ready. 

Keeping a schedule requires organization which we have not yet achieved.  We cannot go sailing with stuff lying all over the place.  During our first few days on the boat stuff was piled everywhere for lack of places to put it. Storage on a 36’ boat is limited and much of it is under couches.  We have spent a lot of time just figuring out where things should go, which things should go in easy access places and what can go in deep storage. This process is still evolving. We are devising clever storage ideas like hanging bags on hooks within cabinets.  In the mean time, however, we need to look ourselves extra time to get ready to travel and that was not built into the schedule.  

Keeping a schedule has also hindered our ability to enjoy where we are.  I had not anticipated the beauty of the coast between Mystic and Maine.  We had simply set our sights on getting north.  We did discover some great places but sometimes felt we were rushing through them. 

Most importantly we need to allow ourselves time for thoughtfulness so as not to make mistakes as well as time for recovery after we’ve made them.  On our first night off our friend’s mooring in Noank we were not thoughtful and went through a narrow channel at low tide.  We were confused between the red and green buoys and we ran aground, not hard, but still disconcerting.  In Menemsha we were not thoughtful about checking the weather.  We then needed a couple days to regroup after our rough day at anchor.


From here on I am determined to make the weather and the temperament of the crew the primary deciding factors for travel.  We really cannot commit to being at a certain place at a certain time.  While we greatly value meeting up with people and to do so we need to name a place and a time, but I am attaining an appreciation for how difficult that is..